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COMMUNAL VALUES:
Every society sets its standards of acceptable behaviour and it values
in interpersonal relationships. Africa in general and Ghana in
particular place much emphasis on communal values like extended family,
nuclear family, respect for the elderly, honouring traditional rulers
like chiefs and elders, and the importance of dignity and proper social
conduct. What one person does is seen as having an impact on his entire
family, social group and community, therefore, everyone is expected to
be careful, respectful, dignified and observant in every public
settings and every aspect of life. There is not much appreciation and
acceptance of the extreme sense of personal independence that
westerners hold so dear. An attitude of "I don’t care what others
think; I will do it my way" is judged as selfish, socially deficient
and destructive. Everything is to be done by consensus-agreement after
much discussion.
There is every deep sense of doing things in a formal, proper way. This
means that too much informality, especially in public settings is not
appreciated. For example, Americans tend to value informality, relaxed
situations and interactions. However in Ghana, proper, respectful
conduct is expected, especially from those who are in the present of
people who are older than them. For example, if you approach a group of
people with the intention of speaking to only one of the group about
something, you must first take time to greet the entire group before
asking permission to speak to the one person. To walk up to a group and
speak directly to one person only without first greeting the entire
group is considered very rude. This sense of formality and concern for
public conduct is also seen in the fact that eating and drinking during
meetings, church services, prayer times, etc., is not acceptable,
neither is chewing gum. The general rule is: "Do not eat or drink in
any gathering unless you are offered something by the host.
This sense of respect and formality is also seen in the custom of
removing sandals, caps before entering shrines, chiefs palace etc. (
this includes flip flops).Also, when you are entering someone’s
room(especially bedroom or private office), you should knock on the
door or say "knocking" before entering, even if the person has already
told you to come in. This evidences a respectful, careful attitude.
Always remember to be cautious, respectful, and observant so as not to
be offensive. This is especially true when you are in the presence of
authorities, elderly persons and in public settings.
SPIRITUAL VALUES:
Religion is very basic in everyone’s life in Ghana, and the spiritual
side of life is regarded as the most important. Everything is seen
through a grid of spiritual values and realities. This provides for a
very receptive atmosphere and positive climate for spiritual work and
interaction, however, as in all cases, takes time to listen and learn.
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